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Marielena ObrenicDirector and founder of the Family Constellations Center of Orlando. Director and founder of the Orlando Florida Psycho Astrology Center.
The developer of Systemic Engineering of the Soul (SES).
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For the principles such as living without fear, living in the infinite now, balance in our life is the key. There can be no judgment or criticism. Our loved ones are always present in our soul like they never died or left us. And at the same time love is the only thing that is real and fear is the greatest illusion we have. We must learn to take ourselves exactly as we are. The basis of quantum physics is that time and space do not exist.
Dr. Rupert Sheldrake’s morphic resonance gives a scientific basis to Hellinger’s Family Constellations. Additionally Psycho Astrology becomes an x-ray of the client. To look into their family system and see how the unconscious family dynamic is creating his or her destiny. Observing what the client is projecting through the Family Constellation,and looking at their Astrological Map, we can connect to achieve a faster and more efficient therapy. That is why I called it engineering. When observing that the client created or had his own genius to transform or achieve an alchemy with each of the phrases that I proposed to repeat inspired by my master Bert Hellinger. Then through the combination of all my studies, Psycho Neuro Linguistic (PNL), Hypnosis, Gestalt, Transactional AnalysisTherapy and Family Constellations Therapy. I’m able to connect each one of these pieces to give birth to this therapy that has been developed thanks to the support of all my family, clients, friends. and patients who have been with me throughout my life. I have put this therapy to practice in person and online with my clients around the world and have seen very good results. We have over 15 years of private and group sessions .
Individual Session and Group sessions
Individual Session and Group sessions
The focus of the two sessions are completely different but both are very powerful.
Individual Sessions
- In groups I use the Morphogenetic Field (Dr, Rupert Sheldrake) of the family system. The client carries an issue in his/her unconscious. Thus the client is unaware of the issue. By projecting, it allows the client to see what he or she has to modify.
Individual Sessions
- The client talks about the issue and we develop a genogram of the family. The genogram reveals the interruptions, exclusions, and harmful family loyalties that cause issues. Once revealed, we are able to release the blockages in the genogram so the client can delete the belief system in the DNA that is blocking their life (Dr. Bruce Lipton).
The orders of Love
To be seen, acknowledged, and belong is our greatest longing. This deep longing for belonging guides our life. As part of the family, everyone has the right to belong. Even though we live in such individualistic times, the soul still honors the realities of the tribe. We like to believe that we can choose whom and what to acknowledge, and what not. It is possible, but the price will have to be paid, usually by later generations. The family soul does not rest until every member and event is fully included again.
"When there has been a trauma or someone in the family system has been excluded, forgotten, cast out, or suffered a difficult fate, someone of the following generations unconsciously and invariably will step in and bring the lost member's destiny back through living it out in this lifetime affecting us in ways in which we have no understanding. It happens out of a deep but hidden loyalty out of the secret law that will not allow anyone of a family system being denied the right to belong. It is a love so deep that the family member may unconsciously choose to die, rather than "betray" the family bond.”...Bert Hellinger
"When there has been a trauma or someone in the family system has been excluded, forgotten, cast out, or suffered a difficult fate, someone of the following generations unconsciously and invariably will step in and bring the lost member's destiny back through living it out in this lifetime affecting us in ways in which we have no understanding. It happens out of a deep but hidden loyalty out of the secret law that will not allow anyone of a family system being denied the right to belong. It is a love so deep that the family member may unconsciously choose to die, rather than "betray" the family bond.”...Bert Hellinger
Setting up a Constellation "Blind"
As a working participant in a Systemic Constellation the client would have an issue of heart seeking of resolution. A brief interview with the facilitator regarding events, and facts of the family allows the facilitator a level of discernment to determine the roles to be represented.
The client will choose from the group, people to "represent" the person or state being worked with in the Constellation. The client will set up the representatives, as it feels right to them, in the sacred circle, or “the field”.
It is extraordinary but true, that from the time the Representatives are placed in The Constellation they will become in touch with the true energetic of the inner reality of the person or state they stand for. They may begin to experience feelings and thoughts, moods and even physical sensations of what they represent.
This will lead the facilitator to the original cause for the block of love and acceptance even though it may be many generations ago, and totally unknown. As The Constellation progresses, the needs of the soul emerge, and the gestures and sentences of healing present themselves.
Step by step through simple words and demonstrations of honor and acknowledgment the entanglements and blocks are revealed and restored to strength and love. This movement allows the client to embrace their true potential to live a full and vital life and follow their unique individuality without being burdened and caught by what went on before. This release carries a healthier sense of family strength and individual freedom, and a profound sense of relief.
The client will choose from the group, people to "represent" the person or state being worked with in the Constellation. The client will set up the representatives, as it feels right to them, in the sacred circle, or “the field”.
It is extraordinary but true, that from the time the Representatives are placed in The Constellation they will become in touch with the true energetic of the inner reality of the person or state they stand for. They may begin to experience feelings and thoughts, moods and even physical sensations of what they represent.
This will lead the facilitator to the original cause for the block of love and acceptance even though it may be many generations ago, and totally unknown. As The Constellation progresses, the needs of the soul emerge, and the gestures and sentences of healing present themselves.
Step by step through simple words and demonstrations of honor and acknowledgment the entanglements and blocks are revealed and restored to strength and love. This movement allows the client to embrace their true potential to live a full and vital life and follow their unique individuality without being burdened and caught by what went on before. This release carries a healthier sense of family strength and individual freedom, and a profound sense of relief.
Sources for Systemic Issues
- Loss of a parent or sibling due to divorce, separation, adoption, death, surrogacy, secrecy,
- Inability to bond with parent due to: complications at birth, prolonged separation in early childhood, arranged marriage, or emotional unavailability
- Loss of child due to: abortion, miscarriage, stillbirth, death, secrecy, artificial insemination, surrogate birth
- Tragic or sudden death, accident or serious illness of family members
- Disrespect or exclusion of family members due to: divorce, separation, handicap, ill deed, sexual or religious preference, ethnicity
- Participation in war, injustice or crime, Separation from country of origin or land.
I've had my share of experiences and I can honestly say that I have a personal understanding of overcoming adversities. This has allowed me to create a warm and trustworthy environment where people can feel free to express themselves because I have the ability to listen from a non-judgmental point of view.
Through many years of experience, I have been able to see that life may seem harder on some then others and this causes much pain and fear. Everyone has a story to tell and I encourage the telling of such by honoring it with privacy and confidentiality. In turn this will also create a key ingredient for a successful and trust session.
Part of my neuroplasticity science training and Family Constellation Family involved an extensive internship where I worked directly r and instructor and I was given the opportunity to work directly with Bert Hellinger.
With different diagnosis having serious psychosomatic disorders; that had been previously labeled with anxiety disorders such as GAD, PTSD, depression and other mood disorder; as well as other psychotic disorders such as schizophrenia. There were some that were still under their doctor’s care and extending neurological help gave far better results.
The secret is in the combination. The root of the problem was exposed neurologically as each individual was helped with their belief systems and undesired behavioral patterns. This was done through various psychological techniques and both -Family Constellation Therapy and Neuroplasticity, provided the perfect solution, resulting in a total recovery.
Through many years of experience, I have been able to see that life may seem harder on some then others and this causes much pain and fear. Everyone has a story to tell and I encourage the telling of such by honoring it with privacy and confidentiality. In turn this will also create a key ingredient for a successful and trust session.
Part of my neuroplasticity science training and Family Constellation Family involved an extensive internship where I worked directly r and instructor and I was given the opportunity to work directly with Bert Hellinger.
With different diagnosis having serious psychosomatic disorders; that had been previously labeled with anxiety disorders such as GAD, PTSD, depression and other mood disorder; as well as other psychotic disorders such as schizophrenia. There were some that were still under their doctor’s care and extending neurological help gave far better results.
The secret is in the combination. The root of the problem was exposed neurologically as each individual was helped with their belief systems and undesired behavioral patterns. This was done through various psychological techniques and both -Family Constellation Therapy and Neuroplasticity, provided the perfect solution, resulting in a total recovery.
